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4/19/2009 busy work lifei joined the busy work life that i never understand that i never wanted to be one
yet bcoz of better offer in not only $ but also better perspect i joined
less than 2 months
i worked 2 saturdays, weekdays till 10pm once, till 9.30pm once, till 8pm twice or three times
and even i can leave at 5pm (8 hrs work) i usually leave at near 7pm (work 10hrs) exclusive 1hr lunch.. no dinner of course
sigh.. started to feel sian
not only bcoz work late
but it seem like it never end
and the mental part is sad
keep triggering btw "should i work late to finish it? or i can't finish" and "i want to go back home"
work can never be finished.. yet go home back earlier might only soak myself in drama
so how?
work or life?
responsibility to company or to myself?
we seem to be educated to be more responsible to work
otherwise why i feel guilty in not working late
if work can't be finished within 8hrs after i put in as much afford as possible, work schedule should be prolonged right?
instead of absorbing my unpaid overtime work
i dunno.. i really don't.. coz everyone seem 'fine' to work more to company
sian..
i miss my ex colleagues and my life..
yet.. i really don't want to go back the previous unsecured work
nothing is perfect
we just hope tmr will be better 2/18/2009 true storyA man sat at a metro station in Washington DC and started to play the violin; it was a cold January morning. He played six Bach pieces for about 45 minutes. During that time, since it was rush hour, it was calculated that thousand of people went through the station, most of them on their way to work.
12/21/2008 fly me to the moon
By Oliva : http://www.imeem.com/nicja/music/E5QTyPbY/olivia_fly_me_to_the_moon/#
By Jazzamor : http://www.imeem.com/isuda/music/-zIwj_cu/jazzamor_fly_me_to_the_moon/?rel=1
Fly me to the moon 12/5/2008 $ spent on so-called essential..History: 24 Oct 2006, 30 May 2007, Oct 2007, Mar 2008
Dec 2008:
(1) S$ 80+ for eye serum ~H2O+ Green tea - antioxidant eye serum 13ml- http://www.h2oplus.com
(2) S$15.20 (af promotion: S$11.50) for cleanser (can remove makeup for face & eyes) Bio-essence Deep Cleansing Milk 200ml http://www.bio-essence.com.cn/index.html or http://lolyco.com/product_info.php?cPath=22&products_id=73 , blue color packaging)
(3) S$17.90 for eye shadow canmake Four Shiny Eyes Shadow code: “[04] Berry Compote” http://www.canmake.com/en/eeye/item_eye025.html (Previous bought: canmake Eye Nuance code: “[13] Golden Brown” http://www.canmake.com/en/eeye/207.html
(4) S$33.50 + S$20 voucher for eye mask
6 pairs in a box.. and now is having promotion~ buy one box free one box~~~
with the S$20 voucher.. i felt tat .. i am only using S$33.50 to get 12 pairs of eye mask~~~ yohooo!
11/13/2008 Trust and Respectcame across below info thro "the executive Aug" which my boss rent us..
=) great write up~
"TRUST AND RESPECT
Although it is a fairly simple concept, many employers overlook the significance that many employees attach to it. Showing respect to your staff means treating them like adults and trusting them to do their best for the company. You need to be objective and fair at all times, and be receptive to both their strengths as well as shortcoming. It also means allowing room for failure and mistakes, and believing that they will improve.
Many employers are often quick to blame and pass judgement, disregarding their staff's opinions and explanations. Respect that people have limitations and work with them on overcoming the obstacles, rather than impose your values and personal biasness upon them. When employees feel respected, not only will they feel more empowered, they are also more likely to accord the same respect (if not more) to you; and would be more tolerant and forgiving your mistakes too."
11/12/2008 let your heart lead you wherever you goThe world is where your heart is.
Nothing is impossible for a willing heart.
Do as you would be done by.
Whatever you do, do with all your might.
Keep your feet on the ground, but let your heart soar as high as it will.
When you find peace within yourself, you become the kind of person who can live at peace with others.
Honesty is the best policy.
The best hearts are always the bravest.
Life isn't about finding yourself. LIfe is about creating yourself.
The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the hearts.
A kind heart is a fountain of gladness, making everything in its vicnity freshen into smiles.
Blessed are those who can give without remembering and take without forgetting.
11/3/2008 true'God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.' happybeen decade never write anything le
not even in my birthday month.. haha
tis few days very hapi
coz after one whole week sick, i am greatly grateful tat i am recovered~
and went to chalet last weekend HAPI
althought it is not even a short trip which i wish to have one
but i feel so much holiday mode~~~
and today when back in lab, weiyi said she run equipment~ wohoo
then i can do paper work and house keeping instead of boring running test
see, such a hapi dayssss period
dear a bit cham.. coz he is having exam 3 papers in these 2 week
wish him good luck~
heart ache to see him so cham in studying
i did ask him to giv up
but he said he really wish to hav a degree paper.. suddenly i wish to hav only a diploma
9/14/2008 timeRealize recently.. for mths or yr? i've been very often finding sth to do so tat time pass faster.
tat doesn't sound good
some ppl complaining being too busy
some complaining being too free
anyone complaining they get the balance the equilibrium?
got to be focus in job
and dont think too much in life
then thing will be fine
came across tis song from someone's blog
very nice!
a romantic song.. somehow i feel tat the song is a pretty sexy lady =)
9/9/2008 don't work so hardWORKER DEAD AT DESK FOR 5 DAYS New York Times 1-22-03 Bosses of a publishing firm are trying to work out why no one noticed that one of their employees had been sitting dead at his desk for FIVE DAYS before anyone asked if he was feeling okay. George Turklebaum, 51, who had been employed as a proof-reader at a New York firm for 30 years, had a heart attack in the open-plan office he shared with 23 other workers. He quietly passed away on Monday, but nobody noticed until Saturday morning when an office cleaner asked why he was still working during the weekend. His boss Elliot Wachiaski said: "George was always the first guy in each morning and the last to leave at night, so no one found it unusual that he was in the same position all that time and didn't say anything. He was always absorbed in his work and kept much to himself." A post mortem examination revealed that he had been dead for five days after suffering a coronary. Ironically, George was proofreading manuscripts of medical textbooks when he died. You may want to give your co-workers a nudge occasionally. *Moral of the story: Don't work too hard. Nobody notices anyway. 8/27/2008 my stylish brother
And cute nephew on poster in europe: http://www.photofunia.com/view/Q7Ap_pCkL3hAvmj6Ltq7UA/
almond on magazine!~~
8/10/2008 glad i rewatch it againi watched "An Inconvenient Truth". second time.
love particularly 3 portions:
love as in i was 'bang' on mind and it printed deep to remind myself from time to time.
1. not how fast is the melting of glacier or ice but how far deep in many country will be flooded by d water. there r million of ppl living there.
2. the frog in boiling pot. i love it the most.
3. the sentence: "future generations may well have occasion to ask themselves, "what were our parents thinking?" "Why didn't they wake up when they had a chance?" We have to hear that question from them, now.
honestly only when i knowing i am going to get married and having kids in future then only i started to hav the fear tat .. how is the earth look like when we r dead and when our kids r still around without us?
one of my lady frens ever told me. "why we wan to hav baby?" before i wanna to say sth to stop her from being passive on having baby, i thought she just being too passive or worry on the money needed for competitive education or the stress of life. but i am wrong. she in fact continueing said, "the earth is having more and more problem now and it is starting being so unstable. why we wan to giv birth kids and let them suffer? let them suffer the pain we brought." wow.. i was like .. i didnt say anything tat time. i just realize luckily i didn't being too pushy or too quicky to bring in or push my point into her mind but slow down and listen to her. luckily. and i should slow down more.
now when ppl say sth, i think wat they say before i try to force in my point of view into others mind. i try. of course it is easy to fail.
ppl tend to show others wat they know and how correct r their point. it is defensive? or is it too ego? or is it show off? i dunno. may be not any of it. it is jsut habit. we always dunno we hav no-so-good habit. lots of good ppl dunno.
ok.. crap a lot. anyway. it is good to rewatch the show and remind myself again. =)
make wat u say meaningA: planning holiday? u should go alaska coz it may melt one day.
B: really?? omg i should really plan about it
C: hmm... wat coz it melts? can we do something to change it?
to act it is not easy
to hav the thought of having tat action is difficult too
since u already hav tat thought, which is the most difficult part
then just do it, which is the earsier part
list tis on ur to do list:
how to reduct carbon dioxide
start from where u live and where u work
P.S. do u hav a recycle bag in ur bag? u don't?? how come?? tis is the most trendy thing now~
put one in. beside saying "thank you" after u take the thing from cashier, say one more "no need carrier plz"
show everyone u r using recycle bag. showing them is the much better than telling them. =) good day
lab: Defrosting your fridge/freezer regularly to improve their efficiency
home: Unplugging chargers for portable games consoles, mobile phones and any other electrical equipment after they have charged
home: Minimise the time the fridge door is open and try to defrost freezers regularly. Keep the grille at the back clean at all times to keep it running efficiently.
7/25/2008 gentle reminder to all and to me too~i tear everytime i read at it
The Son replied "It is a crow".
The Son said "Father, I have just now told you "It's a crow".
At this time some expression of irritation was felt in the Son's tone when he said to his Father with a rebuff. "It's a crow, a crow".
So... If your parents attain old age, do not repulse them or look at them as a burden, but speak to them a gracious word; be cool, obedient, humble and kind to them.
Be considerate to your parents from today say this aloud, "I want to see my parents happy forever. They have cared for me ever since I was a little child. They have always showered their selfless love on me.
Say a prayer to God, "I will serve my old parents in the BEST way. I will say all good and kind words to my dear parents, no matter how they behave. |
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