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    7/25/2008

    gentle reminder to all and to me too~

    i tear everytime i read at it


    An 80 year old man was sitting on the sofa in his house along with his 45 year’s old highly educated son. Suddenly a crow perched on their window.


    The Father asked his Son, "What is this?"

    The Son replied "It is a crow".


    After a few minutes, the Father asked his Son the 2nd time, "What is this?"

    The Son said "Father, I have just now told you "It's a crow".


    After a little while, the old Father again asked his Son the 3rd time, “What is this?"

    At this time some expression of irritation was felt in the Son's tone when he said to his Father with a rebuff. "It's a crow, a crow".


    A little after, the Father again asked his Son t he 4th time, "What is this?" This time the Son shouted at his Father, "Why do you keep asking me the same question again and again, although I have told you so many times 'IT IS A CROW'. Are you not able to understand this?"



    A little later the Father went to his room and came back with an old tattered diary, which he had maintained since his Son was born. On opening a page, he asked his Son to read that page. When the son read it, the following words were written in the diary:-


    "Today my little son aged three was sitting with me on the sofa, when a crow was sitting on the window. My Son asked me 23 times what it was, and I replied to him all 23 times that it was a Crow. I hugged him lovingly each time he asked me the same question again and again for 23 times. I did not at all feel irritated I rather felt affection for my innocent child".


    While the little child asked him 23 times "What is this", the Father had felt no irritation in replying to the same question all 23 times and when today the Father asked his Son the same question just 4 times, the Son felt irritated and annoyed.

     

    So...

    If your parents attain old age, do not repulse them or look at them as a burden, but speak to them a gracious word; be cool, obedient, humble and kind to them.

    Be considerate to your parents from today say this aloud, "I want to see my parents happy forever. They have cared for me ever since I was a little child. They have always showered their selfless love on me.


    They crossed all mountains and valleys without seeing the storm and heat to make me a person presentable in the society today".

    Say a prayer to God, "I will serve my old parents in the BEST way. I will say all good and kind words to my dear parents, no matter how they behave.

    spend spend spend.. T-T

    Since europe honeymoon, i been spending lots of $.. somehow
    the credit card been more than S$500.. siao liao.. no, not much of billing but only hp bill and non-essential expenditure~
    .. .. if skin care products r considered non-essential.. but they r important
     
    boughts clothesss.. shoes and ex dining.. sigh
     
    must start saving $.
    mum said i already hav wat i wan thus must start saving.. but how she knows wat i wan ah?
    and also knowing i already hav it.. wow~ amazing coz i also dunno
    anyway.. really, must control a bit liao
     
    no more magazine (library got or internet forum)
    no more DVD (youtube, i lov u)
    no more shoes
    no more ... clothes.. i mean reduce.. control.. hahaha i try la, i really wan to try..
     
    k.. so no more gift for frens and frens hav to pay for my dining if they bring me to ex restaurant k?
    LOL.. in my dream.. -__-