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7/29/2007 RojakSome rojak things to record down:
work busy recently.. been a mth liao.. will last a yr? or .. continously =.= siao liao~
(1) 2007.07.17 cockcoach
- siao ah!!! tat day i catch 2 cockcoach! my first time! very horrible first time experience! one alive somemore! me so super! but.. still very "yuck!!!" experience! no choice .. got audit and couldn't get help .. so died died must catch.. sigh!
(2) 2007.07.29 money
went to amk hub today, saw lots of nice things.. shoe & ring from "shoe * " , sunglasses from monsoon, bags for frens bla bla bla...
but wat to do? "too many things to buy, too little money" ... for work: "too many things to do, bang gang still siam" kekekeke
(3) fish & co.
went makan in fish & co with DD .. wat we eat? ICE-CREAM!!!! ^O^ wahahahahah~ see photo below
heheheheheh~ we eat fish and chip and platter lah. then dessert is ice cream .. think of eat chicken chop or beef one.. too bad they didn't sell there.. lol
(4) choose tea dress..
an ordinary one.. sigh~ hopefully in orange dim light.. it looks nice..
(5) lots of ants...
tat day sms best fren asking wat/how she calls her bf.. she replied:" salty.. coz he calls her sweety" .. diaoz... she always speak cool thing.. lol
wat i call my DD? beside Dear Dear.. i use to call him "pig gravy".. in chinese.. “猪浆”... which is ”猪这样”... lol
oh.. in case u r curious why i put the title as 'lots of ants'? bcoz.. too sweet~ ^O^
(6) morning SOP
wake up, put on clothes, niao niao, wash face, brush teeth, wear contact lens, put on toner-eyecream-serum-moisturiser, change work clothes, on TV watch national-geographic (~HAPI~ ^^), makan breakfast (DD prepares, MUCK!), on hp radio, off TV, open door, wear shoes, close door, walk down stair case, walk toward mrt, collect free newspaper (~HAPI~ ^^), take mrt, take co. bus, clock in, fill up water bottle, on pc, put on lab coat, start lab work.. Tis morning SOP repeat 6 days a week..
sound suck right? hahahah.. luckily got TV, hp, free newspaper & DD.
(7) someone u know and u don't
i am talking about someONE. there is one ex-colleague, i always meet her in almost every morning in mrt station.. waiting train, and often takes d same train same cubicle.. yet.. we both pretend we don't know each other.. how come ah?
tis is really bad..and weird~
however, don't intend to change it yet.. don't know y, just don't feel to..
dunno y along the way to work or along the way back home .. in mrt.. always don't feel to chit chat with colleague or frens...
prefer to play hp game or sleep or being gei poh look along c whether got short 'movie clip' .. eg some ppl make over in mrt.. put on powders and powders turns from yellow-face-aunt to pretty OL.
just.. don't feel to talk much, unless i am in good mood or in holiday mood.. dunno y ley? anyway, it doesn't matter. watever~
(8) DD saw me wrote "my super DD" on previous blog.. the day later, he bought me an eeyore hp hanger.. said coz i praise him in my blog.. i told him.. i will write "MIGHTY DD" in my coming blog, and i said.. i short of cool sunglass, cool watch, nice bags, nice necklace, and few thousand dollars (mthly), sex life bla bla bla..
(He was standing beside me.. now lying on the floor.. coz he fainted liao) wahahahhaha~~~ ^O^
ok.. gtg.. read blog cya
7/26/2007 love each otherReceived below email from fren. :)
who seldom forward 'junk/info' email. so.. guess she really wan to share tis
and i find it very meaningful too~~ ^^
TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.
A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She answered, "Public Utilities Board." There was silence. She repeated, "PUB." There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she heard a lady's voice, "Oh, so this is PUB. Sorry, I got the number from my Husband's pocket but I do not know whose number it is." Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the telephone operator answered with just "hello" instead of "PUB". NO POINTING FINGERS
A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?" The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you."
We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves. If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too. CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS?
A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested "I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one." The SDU officer said, "Your requirements, please." "Oh, good looking, polite, humorous, sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest." The officer listened carefully and replied, "I understand you need television." There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband, because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins. NO OVERPOWERING
Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character." It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness. It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations.. RIGHT SPEECH
There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation." Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other, we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party. A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted, "Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school." On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married me. Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker." She answered,"You should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he will be the millionaire and not you." Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed. PERSONAL PERCEPTION Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another man's poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home, a boy commented, "Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey? "Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, "The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?" Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey. Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, "How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman." The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, "Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you." Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders. It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future. Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear.. BE PATIENT
This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital. Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery and saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, "Daddy, I'm sorry about your truck." Then he asked, "but when are my fingers going to grow back?" The father went home and committed suicide. Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or you wish to take revenge. Think first before you lose your patience with someone you love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones and hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge. People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever. "Good Life starts only when you stop wanting a better One"
" Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away " 7/22/2007 toilet thoughtshould b 'thought in the toilet'
sorry, no dirty sexy thought
anyway, even there is .. it should b something from hot sexy gal
but i am not one .. so no sexy thought in toilet
ok.. stop being ali....
"ali" means talk too much or lengthy in s'pore teen slang
...
start:
(1) had a great chat with frens
oversea call 1 hr +
but it is very worth
feel glad i didn't buy her the necklace tat day (coz i had second thought)
now.. spend the $ to chat with her is definitely more worth
^^
(2) fren said envy my smooth steady relationship
coz we pak tou few years
live happily together cohabit
then both involved in wedding preparation
'both' take part and have discussion is very important
hmm... i told my fren in fact i do have my problem and complaint
but then .. in fact.. think about it seriously
i really need to cherish wat i have now
i got comfortable bedroom, clean toilet, nice sofa with big screen tv, at least twice a week home cook food
and my super DD~~ hee~
(3) time..
- some ppl wanna to get more $ & thus sacrify time with lover
- some ppl wanna to get better career & thus sacrify time after work.. very un-willing-ly
- tat day boss told me "when u reach certain age u'll feel money is not tat important but should cherish more on oppotunity" bla bla bla... of course.. tat means tis year won't have much increment..
but in some way.. i still agree with my boss.
yeah.. money is not tat important... for me ..
so as career ... for me life/family/love is first follow by money and career
career and money is together..
enough will do... so long can support my family/life
i don't wan to sacrify a lot time in order to earn lots of $ which so tat i can have good life with my children...
coz.. good life with family/love one/children means spend more time with them
money can't buy back moment, childhood.. bla bla bla..
anyway, of course i still hope for increment .. wahahahah~
more $ more shopping mah~
hee
7/18/2007 sunshine after rainshould write tis down yesterday night:
Sunshine after Rain
with Rainbow~
Thx DD!!! ^^ 7/16/2007 swingI should be sleeping now
but couldn't fall in sleep while too many things in mind
too many 'why' 'wat' and 'sigh'
- can i still claim the insurance $ after being 气死 (angry til die) by the insurance agent?
- is my insurance agent very sucessful in his job now and thus he is too super busy to entertain me?
- or is my insurance agent very lousy in his job?
- is my problem only 'so call problem' to myself whereas in his eye it is not a problem or not even a thing?
- watever it is .. it is drag about 2 yrs.. and it is super irritating
- it really can't blame anyone who so dislike 'insurance', 'insurance agent', 'investment' bla bla bla.. when there r so many bad experience out there. i am a common person.. i believe my problem is a common problem.
- can a person become depression when he think too much on 'whether i am in depression' and 'wat is depression'?
- wat is ‘心肌病‘？
- does hormone really give tat big impact?
- how to control emotion to prevent or reduce mood swing?
- is there any more practical idea or explaination then just theory or "dignose (10mins)-appointment(months)-wait(1hr++)-5mins theory-(mths later)-dignose (10mins)-appointment(mths)-wait (1hr+++)-5mins theory"... ...? and the situation doesn't turns better...
- how to talk less to those don't wan to talk much
- how to talk more to those who care about u
- it starts from very simple
- spark begins
- innotiative
- wrong timing
- doubt
- annoying
- impatient
- guilty
- it doesn't mean.. u can do it when ppl said so
- it doesn't mean.. u can do it when u have confident
- it means nothing when no one said so and u have no confident
- it only mean too much when it is only in mind
no.. thinking too much not becoz it is once-a-mth
no.. i am not looking for someone to deny me
no.. i am not looking for any arguement. i never b good in it and never like it
no.. i am not looking for the cause of all tis
no.. i am not looking for true or wrong
i am only looking for a fren
someone who i can talk to and someone is in tis island (yet these 2 never happen together)
for the first time i wish there is no comment in my blog
7/14/2007 my first bikini~DD bought me a bikini on 07.07.07
Hee~
i am thinking to have one for quite a long time
coz in sg most ladies wear bikini on the beach...
even in swimming pool...
and.. it is nice to wear bikini
ya... not everyone can wear bikini ... nice
tat's y it took us a long time to buy one...
we will shop in bikini shop whenever we came across one
however.. due to my tiny mimi.. it is very hard to get one.. tat suits me
the one we bought...
we went in, tried, went out...
made u-turn go back again.. went in, tried, went out..
3 times!
i was so indecisive to buy it...
but DD decided to buy it for me...
he said it is very nice... ya.. it is very nice.. we like the small white flowers on the bright yellow bikini
just so simply, sweet and nice
Hence, we bought it...
even we r not sure whether i can wear it...
i sure can wear it..
just tat whether i will wear it or not...
coz... i might look horrible on it
or i will feel very uncomfortable... ...
i tried it at home... the next day after washed it
look not bad...
wish to wear it soon.. after wedding.. coz now can't afford to have sun tan.
^-^
7/13/2007 list to dowanna to write a blog last last week..
yet no time (in office/lab) or been too forgetful (at home)
now.. couldn't remember wat to write
thus must write down a list on wat i wanna to do/blog.. when i stil remember:
(1) DVD i wanna to collect
1. transformer
2. harry porter - all
3. spiderman - all
4. batman begin
5. fantasic four - all 2
6. star war - 1
7. pirate of the caribbean -1
8. X-men
9. The italian job
10. head over heel
11. CSI !!! (and CSI new york)
...
(2) wedding preparation
- to update on my file
(3) sg wedding dinner invitation list
- not enough tables... headache... stupid DD lah~ initially wants only 2 table.. now need 6 tables.. or more!
slap him~... really got to work
(4) ...
wat else?
.. hmm..
gtg back to lab first..
sigh young lady old stupid brain |
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